23 January 2017

Six Months In

We've been here six months now. This has been the hardest transition we've had for any move ever and while some of it is Saudi Arabia, not all of it is. But like I did for Guadalajara, here are some of the positives and negatives about living here.

The biggest positive for my daily life is living near a wadi.  Being able to hike and walk along the wadi every day is huge.  There really is nothing like it in the world.

Also, I love the desert.  If you like erosion, you'd love this desert.  And the escarpment. I'm so glad we started exploring it quickly.

I love speaking Arabic again. I love that I don't have to learn a new language.  I love that I can ask questions.  I can earn at least a tiny bit of credibility, which isn't easy to do here, because I speak some Arabic.

Riyadh is a really diverse city.  I talk to people from all over Asia and Africa, my kids hang out with kids from India and the Philippines especially, and we are happily eating our way through lots of different countries, all from right here in Riyadh. 

I love the weather in the winter.  For all the awfulness in the summer, getting months and months of cooler weather is a lifesaver.  There are so many interesting historical and geologic sites around here and the winter is the time to explore them.

But the climate really is awful in the summer, and summer is very long here.  Having air conditioners, air purifiers, and humidifiers running constantly is so wasteful, but the place is not livable without them.  It's hard to breathe, it's almost impossible to go outside at any time of day, and it's just miserable.  The year-round average air quality is one of the worst in the world because of the sand in the air. This is not a sustainable location for a city of millions of people.  I am not looking forward to another summer.

There really are so many restrictions here, but there's also flexibility and people often try to work around the restrictions as hospitably as possible. People are so kind and apologetic when I make a mistake and never, ever demanding.  I *still* have never seen the religious police.  I know they're out there, but they haven't intruded on my life yet.  

Also, Riyadh may be diverse, but it's still a boring city.  There are only a couple of historical sites and shopping and lunching are the appointed activities for women who aren't working. I don't like to shop and lunch. Maybe I'll have to start signing up for the expensive tours going out of the city, or hire a driver to take me to mud ruins during the day.

Honestly, it's the summer climate that's the worst here.  I can deal with most anything if I can breathe and go outside.  

Why I March

I suppose it was to be expected that some women wouldn't support the march on Saturday, and that's fine. But I disagree pretty strongly with some of the criticisms I've read today.

This march was about women and women have a lot of different issues they care about. I had friends carrying signs about refugees, religious freedom, human rights, reproductive rights, equality, and so much more. Trying to reduce this to a single issue ignores millions of women's voices (unless that issue is women's rights).

I also had friends marching in solidarity with and for women from all over the world, from Saudi Arabia to Burkina Faso to Kyrgyzstan and India and Mexico and more. They were marching for women to be able to go out without being assaulted, for women to have political representation, for women to have access to education, for women to choose their own clothing and transportation. No matter where they were marching, they were marching for something important.

This wasn't a temper tantrum or a pro-abortion march. This was millions of women all over the world standing up for issues we believe in. The only reason we could even do this is because generations of women before us marched and made their voices heard. This was one of the biggest political events in the history of the world and it mattered, not only for those of us who marched, but for all of the women over so many years who made this possible.

16 January 2017

Ushaiger Heritage Village

Old mud villages are everywhere in Saudi Arabia.  The first restored section of Diriyah should be opening in a few months and if you drive in pretty much any direction, you'll find a town with an old mud section in varying states of dilapidation.  They really weren't abandoned all that long ago but these buildings need constant maintenance so they fall apart quickly.  They're a bit like ghost towns.

It seems that you can go poke around these places whenever you want to and no one minds.  Historical preservation in general isn't a major priority here and no one owns the buildings.  I love going to these so I've been suggesting for a while that we go to Ushaiger because the people there have restored part of their old town and it sounded interesting.  And it was.

There are several museums and restored homes that open for tourists, especially tour groups.  We were there on a weekday morning so nothing was open except the main museum. If you go, try to budget some extra time for tea and chatting with the man running the place.  He loves it.  But other than that, you can wander wherever you like.  There are larger homes, several mosques, squares and courtyards and nicely paved streets, and farms and fields and wells around the edges.  We spent a couple of hours there without seeing everything, but I want to go back with some of the boys because I think they'll like it too.

It's just two hours from Riyadh.  You can go northwest out of the city or down the escarpment and north from the first exit toward Dhurma.  Go one way and return the other.  It's also a nice way to see the escarpment.

In some of the photos below, you can see a restored home with a spot where a fire could be lit inside, plus ruined versions of the same thing.

06 January 2017

Camel Trails and the Escarpment

The Tuwaiq Escarpment runs for about 500 miles down central Saudi Arabia from al-Qassim to the Rub al-Khali.  It's about 20 minutes west of the edge of Riyadh and is pretty sheer near the city.  The first time I saw it was when we were driving out to go four-wheeling and I had no idea it was there.  I love it.

But it's a pretty big impasse if you're trying to get from Riyadh (or Diriyah before Riyadh) to Mecca, and lots of people were trying to do that.  There's a road now, about thirty years old, that zips you up and down, but before that you had to go south toward al-Kharj and then head west to access (I believe) a wadi that cuts through the escarpment (around Dirab - I need to explore this one more). That's a much longer trip on a camel.

So some enterprising people built camel trails down the escarpment.  There are several of them although most have crumbled away.  But the one you can see best, that expats call Camel Trail #1, is actually climbable all the way down and that's what's in the photos below, if you see a trail.  We haven't done the hike yet but I plan to very soon.  It has a bit of a developed area on top with some stone picnic benches and more people go there. The road is also fairly good, except for the washed-out parts.  This one is south of the main road.

North of the main road, you can try to find at least three more.  We've been to the top and bottom of several of these and I don't think any are still climbable, but we'll keep exploring.  The photos below with the pinnacle are near camel trail 4.  The pinnacle is called Faisal's Pinnacle and you can climb it.  We hoped we could climb part of camel trail four if we got to the bottom, and we had the coordinates for the trail, but I don't think it's possible.   Also, there really aren't a lot of roads along the bottom of the escarpment but it's very interesting to drive down there.  No matter what, standing at the bottom of the escarpment or the view from the top is worth the trip.  If you go along the top, there are fenced-off quarries but camel trail 3 (or the spot marked that but there is not a trail left maybe but hiking down to the edge is very cool) is not fenced.

These are all very conveniently marked on google maps if you want to try finding them yourself. Also, there are geocaches.

05 January 2017

Wadi Mawan

I read about this place a few days ago while I was looking for interesting places to go outside Riyadh.  The photos looked cool and I conceived my husband to drive me out, but I had no idea it would be so wonderful.  The things I'd read talked about bouldering and rock climbing and didn't really focus on the fact that this is a little slot canyon.

It's a little more than an hour south of Riyadh from the edge of the city.  There are several different routes and my favorite is along 5399 rather than 509 or out toward Al Kharj.  After that, the new road toward Howtat Bani Hamim is quick and easy. The slot canyon part of the wadi is about half a kilometer long and maybe 30 feet deep at the most.

04 January 2017

Al Ha'ir

We came back through Al Ha'ir after one of our jaunts into the desert. People who aren't from deserts might say that oases are what they think make deserts livable, and there are some in Saudi Arabia (although many are disappearing because there's so much more demand for water now), but it's really the wadis that matter here.  It's an entirely different world in a wadi and Al Ha'ir is no different.  It was interesting to drive through a mud town that's still being maintained.  

Al Ha'ir also has the dubious honor of having the country's largest maximum security prison nearby.  We drove by on our way out and were trying to decide if it was a military installation designed to keep people out or a prison designed to keep people in.  Here's an interesting article about it.  

03 January 2017

Tuwaiq Escarpment

Saudi Arabia really does get so much better when it's not hot, and since we live on the edge of the city, we can get out of town quickly. Right now, our favorite place is the Tuwaiq Escarpment. We've found several places along the edge that only take 30 minutes to get to and they're perfect for dinner over the fire and some stargazing with the telescope.  

The escarpment is totally fascinating and I'll have more posts about it.

02 January 2017


I've been to Diriyah a couple of times now, near al-Bujairi Square.  It's a UNESCO World Heritage site and undergoing restoration (the first part should be open in April!), but for now, it's still a pleasant and interesting place to visit.  Depending on when you go, there will be lots of picnickers.  There's also a museum and other things I haven't seen yet.  I love poking around to see what we can find and one time I went with a friend and her preschoolers and they enjoyed it too.

31 December 2016

Goodbye 2016

So.  This wasn't the best year ever, mostly because of the five-letter word, but let's focus on the good parts, okay? At least mostly.

Last year's list:
  • Finish Washington DC.  I don't want to have a lot of things I wish I'd done. I'll be back, but it probably won't ever be both as easy as it is right now to see all the things.
  • Have school go well for everyone
  • Get to Saudi by train and ship and not so many planes (at least with a few trains?)
  • Figure out how to live in Riyadh reasonably well by the end of the year
  • Moderation in all things 
  • Write something?
This wasn't a long list and I was only moderately successful. DC was great and I feel like we did got as much out of our time there as possible.  I'm certainly not finished, but it was enough this time.  Also, I loved doing the field trips with my son.  

Some of us are getting the hang of Riyadh.  The weather makes a HUGE difference, and so does getting out of the city more often.  We've been having a lot of fun exploring (and I really need to get caught up on those posts). 

I could spend more time on Arabic, but I'm at least taking a class twice a week and I'm moving forward even if it's not very fast.  I have definitely remembered how much I like the language and that makes a difference.

We weren't able to be creative with getting to Saudi because of work schedules, but that turned out to be a wonderful thing because we stopped in Europe and met up with my sister for a day in Germany.  That was one of my favorite things ever and now I want to meet up with all of my sisters and their families in lots of interesting places.  Those almost-24 hours was the best day of the entire year.

So, 2017.  It will be an eventful year no matter what.  Some of these are inevitable, others are hopes.

Oldest child graduates from high school and second child ready to go in 2018
Line up an amazing place to move next
Student loans paid off
Do something good for our 20th anniversary 
No moves
Travel more 
Do a big refugee project
Figure out other good ways to oppose Trump
Lots of histories and history
Explore Saudi and try new food
Buy a condo?

20 December 2016


The top photo is normal sandiness in the air, the bottom is moderate sandstorm.

I have things to post about but we have to get organized with the photos.

There's Diriyah, Wadi Hanifa, the Tuwaiq Escarpment, Batha market, and some more things.  Hopefully all the photos can be gathered into one place and we can find the camera so they all get taken from one place again.

03 December 2016


Today I went an entire hour's drive outside the city.  That's the furthest I've been from my house since we arrived.

We had something else planned this afternoon so we couldn't do anything that took too long or that might have gotten us into a pickle so we decided to go to see the old mud brick ruins of Raghba. I wasn't able to find a lot of information about the place, but it's supposed to have been around since the mid-1600s.  There used to be watchtower on the west side of the ruins (as recently as a couple of years ago), but it was a heap today. 

You can still go inside the mosque and climb up the minaret to get a view over the ruins.  Don't miss that.  There are also some buildings with some interesting decoration inside.  You could poke around diligently for a couple of hours, but I'd suspect most people wouldn't stay more than an hour at most.

It's easy to get here from Riyadh. Go northwest out of the city on King Khaled Road (535) and just keep on going till you get to Raghba. There are plenty of signs along the way in Arabic and English.  It's about an hour from the time you leave the edge of the city. When you get to the circle at Raghba, the ruins will be to your left.  Turn left at the circle and drive down into them.

These were not the best ruins we have ever seen, but it was so nice to get out and they were interesting enough for an hour's drive.  I loved looking out the window and I learned lots of new Arabic words along the way.

23 November 2016

Old Riyadh

Riyadh has a small old city south of the current center.  Masmak Fort is there, along with some old mud brick homes, a few city gates (the walls no longer exist), and some reconstructed mosques.  There are lots of squares and souqs too, including one of the few souqs with souvenirs and handicrafts.  Not much demand for that here since there are so few tourists, but since it's one of the few places to go, there's not as much competition.   We went to one souq a couple of weeks ago to get some Christmas shopping done and it was fun to be there.

I think there's a lot more poking around to be done in old Riyadh.

22 November 2016

So.  There are some things to not like about Saudi Arabia, but there's a lot I do like.  I'm happy to be here even though the transition has been hard (and even that can largely be blamed on Trump).

I love being back in the Middle East. It's been such a long time since I've been here.  And part of that is speaking Arabic again.  It's so nice to go back to a language I can do something with.  I love my Arabic class.  I love having Arabic all around me.  I love being in a Muslim country again.

I really like our neighborhood.  Now, I'd rather live in a real neighborhood where I could walk to a couple of little grocery stores and stop at the bakery, but since that's not an option, I'm glad we live here in a diverse neighborhood where you don't have to wear an abaya but they're not banned either. The setting is lovely too and I count it as a real blessing that I can bike or walk for miles a day in an interesting place without an abaya or finding someone to give me a ride.

I love seeing and talking to people from all over Africa, Asia, and the Middle East every day.  I love eating food from all over those places too.  I love hearing so many languages when I walk down the street.  I've learned so much already from so many different people.

And finally, there are interesting things to do here.  I'm working on a list and I'm going to start posting about my plans and hopefully we'll be able to start chipping away at the list.

I decided to put my serious concerns about Trump in a different post below on around November 9th, depending on your time zone.  I'll keep adding to that post until he is no longer a risk to the US.

So.  Moving on up here.  Kabsa is everywhere in Saudi Arabia.  It's similar to many of the other rice dishes you can find all over the Middle East and Central and South Asia with meat and spices and maybe some vegetables.  Here, you can go to a kabsa place and get enough food for everyone in the family for less than $10.  There's also plenty of biryani too.  They give you a piece of plastic for you can dump the rice and meat on.  After everyone has eaten, you just gather up the plastic and toss it.  Easy.

We can zip over to one of the real neighborhoods near our house and it's an easy and yummy meal

13 November 2016

The Media Didn't Make Me Do It

There have been several times now in the last few days that people have told me that the media misrepresented Trump or told me to feel a certain way about him.  It's hard to separate Trump from the media because he's so intricately connected with it.  There was also almost no traditional information about Trump like a well-articulated and comprehensive campaign website.  In the end, my opinion was formed by what he told me about himself.

Before Birtherism, I didn't have much of an opinion about the man. He seemed like a rich guy from New York who spent too much time in the tabloids. Not a great recommendation, but hardly the worst things ever.

Then Birtherism happened. I know that didn't bother some people, but the media didn't have to tell me it was a problem. I know in my heart that it is not right that Trump demanded that Barack Obama had to prove his citizenship in a different way than any other past president. Maybe you think that Barack Obama's race was incidental to that, but either way, Trump demanded a different standard and I know that was wrong.

Then Trump announced his candidacy by saying awful things about Mexicans. Again, I know that a lot of people weren't bothered by that, but I was living in Mexico then and I know it was wrong. The media didn't have to tell me that. In fact, I wish they hadn't played it over and over because I hate watching that statement so much. It hurts every time.

Then Trump kept saying things about all sorts of people, mocking them, belittling them. The media made sure we all heard about them, over and over, but they didn't have to tell me it was wrong. I knew for myself.

Then Trump said he would ban Muslims from entering the US. This time, it wasn't just liberals and the media being appalled. The LDS Church, which almost never makes political statements, released a statement against Trump's proposal. Paul Ryan and so many other Republican leaders did too. But even then, I knew in my heart that he was wrong all by myself.

And after all that, he attacked the Khan family. He said a US judge could not do his job because of his Mexican background. And more. I knew he was wrong.

The media did not create a story about Trump as someone who espouses racist and bigoted things. He told me himself.

09 November 2016

You know, I have voted for the losing candidate before.  It's not pleasant but it also wasn't devastating.  Generally it was about policy differences and it's okay if people don't agree on policy.

This is completely different.  Trump wasn't appealing for our votes based on any altruistic or noble principles. If he were truly the voice of Americans who feel overlooked and ignored, he would have a diverse group of supporters because it isn't white men who have been oppressed and abused in the US.  Instead, he told white men to vote for him by blaming everyone who wasn't white for their problems.  Refugees, Mexicans, immigrants, civil rights activists, so many people. It is the blaming and demonizing that I despise.

I have never been so disappointed in the US. 

For now, I'm going to be fighting as hard as I can to make sure refugees are still welcome in the US.  What are you going to do?

ETA that I'm going to make this a spot to write down things that Trump or his cronies have said or done that I think are totally unacceptable. Today is 11.22.2016

Trump has tweeted several times complaining about constitutionally-protected expression and demanded apologies.  He has referred to this expression as "unfair" and "harassment."

He has appointed or is considering a number of highly concerning people as advisers.  The only decent person who has even been floated as SoS is Mitt Romney and he has zero foreign policy experience. The others are far worse.

His chief strategist is Steve Bannon.  He ran the self-proclaimed platform for white nationalism. The best spin you can put on that one is that he's using white nationalism for his political benefit, but he's not a white nationalist himself.  Even that is appalling.  If Obama had tried to appoint as his chief strategist the producer of black nationalist media (even if they were just in it for the money), it would be like this.  How would that have gone over?

I am very worried about the anti-Muslim sentiments of many of his appointees.  I do not have much hope at all that Syrian refugees will be allowed into the US after January 20th.  I don't know about Muslim refugees from other countries. I think visas for people from most of the Middle East are in serious jeopardy.  These people have said that Islam demands them to commit terrorist acts.  They call Islam our enemy.  If Obama had appointed several women who called Christianity our enemy and said that it drives people to kill, how would that have gone over?

Also, the immigration policies several of his people support are far too harsh.  They have defended cities who try to implement statues banning landlords from renting to undocumented people.  There are so many problems with laws like that that I don't even know where to start, but I'm sure it appeals to some people.

Several of these people have either stated that they are okay with waterboarding and worse or that they wouldn't rule it out.  How can they even think that is okay?

The prospective Attorney General does not seem to know the definition of sexual assault and he was not approved to be a judge 30 years ago because of self-admitted blatantly racist statements.  One of the most important responsibilities of the AG is to protect voting rights.  How can anyone not be concerned about that?

Trump has, one time, said "Stop it" to people who are doing mean things in his name.  He hasn't ever bothered trying to separate himself from being connected to white nationalism.

31 October 2016

We went out for a quick evening adventure in the car again.  This time we drove around Wadi Hanifa a bit and decided that there's a lot more exploring to do there. Here's an article about it. http://archive.aramcoworld.com/issue/201201/a.wadi.runs.through.it.htm

On the way home we stopped at a couple of bakeries I'd been curious about near Takhassousi Street.  One turned out to be a tandoor bakery! They said it was Pakistani, but it's probably really Afghani tamis.  Anyway, it was so nice to eat hot tandoor bread again.  You cannot recreate the smell and flavor of tandoor bread any other way.  I need to do more research to find out about the word origin.  The baker had a rolling bread stamp that he zipped over the dough really quickly and the bread baked quickly too.

Also, I'm getting a lot quicker at the grocery store and sometimes I have time to wander around a bit while I'm waiting for the other people in the car.  Today I found the bakery cookies.  There were lots of tasty-looking ones that we'll have to try.  I got some cashew cookies and some Indian salted cumin cookies.  They were amazing.  http://www.cookwithmanali.com/cumin-cookies-jeera-biscuits/

Refugee Blog and Facebook Page

I've created a blog and Facebook page to help get information out about specific things people can do to help refugees.



If you are interested, I'd appreciate it if you could like the page on Facebook and share it with people who also might benefit from it.  The focus will be on how to help.

30 October 2016

Why I Could Never Vote for Trump

First, a bit more about the emails since they're back in the news after I wrote my last post.  This does not change my vote for Hillary.  We apparently won't even know what is in them before the election and I think it's mostly likely that Hillary will still win. I certainly very much hope so. Even if the worst hopes of House Republicans come true after she wins and these emails describe all the bribes and murders Hillary is supposed to have done, I could live quite happily with the consequence of a Tim Kaine presidency, thank you very much.

Anyway, I've already voted and it was and still is the very easiest election decision I've ever made.  Not because Hillary Clinton is my favorite nominee ever (although I love some of the things she advocates for), but because Trump is the worst major-party nominee I have ever had a choice of voting for. In my mind, Hillary Clinton is so much better than Trump that I cannot not vote for him.  I would vote for almost anyone else over him (and if the other nominee were as bad? I.would.not.vote.) Here's why I think that. 

Announcement.  Hillary Clinton's first campaign speech in June of 2015 talked about her life-long advocacy for children and the many different people she wants to help in the US. Trump announced in June and called Mexicans horrible things (except for some that he "assume[s] are good people.") I was in Mexico when he said those things.  I knew I'd never vote for him, but I also though he'd never get through the primaries because of all of the junk he kept saying.  

Primary debates. Trump has never, in any debate, shown any sort of grasp on policy or an understanding of how the presidency works.  He'd run out the clock without saying anything.  He didn't seem to listen if the topic didn't interest him or specifically involve him.  He'd say he'd do things that the president can't do.  He'd make personal attacks that had nothing to do with anything. He didn't seem to understand terms that presidents should understand.

Interviews. As in the debates, Trump has also shown very little interest in or knowledge about a great many topics that presidents need to know about during interviews.  He says even less than your typical politicians when he's trying to avoid a question.  He managed to completely bungle a question about punishing a woman for getting an abortion and spout a view that no one, not even the most ardent pro-life groups, agree with.  Had he never thought about the topic?   When he was asked about Ukraine, it appeared that he either didn't realize that Crimea is part of Ukraine or that he didn't think Russia was involved there.  Either one is highly concerning in a presidential candidate.  His comments about nuclear proliferation, if they can be taken literally, are terrifying. And if he didn't really mean them, why in the world did he say that he thinks more countries should have nuclear weapons?

That takes me on to two related points - the idea that presidential candidates don't need to know everything and that Trump doesn't seem to be trying to educate himself.  Trump supporters often say that Trump will surround himself with smart people who fill in his gaps in knowledge.  That's great- even Hillary Clinton who is one of the most experienced presidential nominees ever can't know everything and needs good advisers.  But throughout the campaign, Trump has shown very little inclination both hire capable people and take their advice.  His first two campaign managers were not great choices and ended up leaving.  Kellyanne Conway, his current campaign manager is brilliant but she has made it clear that he hasn't taken her advice.  I think Trump could have won this thing if he had listened to her for the last two months of campaigning, but he has proven that he is unwilling to consistently listen when there is a smart person advising him.

When The Atlantic endorsed Clinton a few weeks ago, one of the most damning statements against Trump was "he appears not to read."  Now, reading is not the only way to educate oneself, but Trump has shown no evidence that he is any better versed now on important topics than he was a year ago.  If you don't know what the nuclear triad is in a debate, you find out and make sure you can talk about it competently later.  You learn about the conflict in Ukraine.  You figure out what the limits on the president are. And so many other things.

He does seem to have learned to not talk about things he doesn't know about, which made the real debates a little tricky for him, but earlier he spouted a lot of ideas that simply aren't acceptable.

I'm still horrified that he proposed banning Muslims from entering the US.  Yes, he has apparently softened his position, but the statement is still on his website and he refuses to give details about which countries would be affected by his proposed ban and whether everyone from that country would be banned or just Muslims (which would still make it a religious test).

I'm still horrified that he proposed killing the families of terrorists.

I'm still horrified that he would even consider bringing back waterboarding, much less anything else.

And even when he does seem to have a position that appears to have been thought through, he's still really short on detail or understanding how the details would work in the real world.  His plan to get Mexico to pay for the wall would have a seriously negative impact on Mexico-US relations.  We know he's supposed to be pro-life, but his only suggestion is stacking the Supreme Court and that hasn't worked for 40 years.  I have no idea how he's going to make things better for veterans.  And he'll renegotiate trade deals, but what does that mean?  All of them?  Will he  be personally involved in the negotiations?  And what about tariffs?  Does he fully recognize the negative impacts those can have? I'm not at all convinced that he does.  And how in the world can you propose spending increases based on your projections that the economy will have "tremendous growth"?

He tells us we must vote for him because only he can fix the problems he sees in the US even though he cannot tell us how he would fix those problems.  It's the typical strongman appeal.  He also almost never appeals to our better selves, but demonizes people who aren't like him to stoke fears in his supporters.  Immigrants, especially Mexicans and refugees, are the problem.  Muslims are making us less safe.  America used to be great, apparently when it was whiter.  The media is corrupt and out to get him and his supporters.  China is the enemy because it's all about money.  There is almost no altruistic reason to vote for him.

And then I just plain old don't like a lot of the things he says.  Black lives do matter.  Guns are not my thing and I want schools to remain gun-free zones.  Immigration is what has made this country great and I am very opposed to deportation.  I am not a populist or anything like unto it. Cutting taxes for the wealthy is not my thing either.  Climate change is real and it will have serious impacts on all of our lives, but especially people in other countries with few resources to mitigate those consequences and we need to prepare for that. I think the EPA should stay. Stop-and-frisk is wrong, wrong, wrong. What would Putin do is not a wise guiding principle.  A free press is vital in our country.  Eminent domain should be used carefully.

How about temperament?  Yeah, right.

The very few times we've seen him try to do something presidential or altruistic haven't been very encouraging either.  When he raised money for veterans, he illegally used his own foundation to accept the donations and didn't donate his promised million until he was hounded by the press.  Then when he finally made the donation, he admonished the press for hounding him rather than praising him.  His trip to Mexico was not handled well, but he said it was successful because someone in Mexico was kicked out of the government afterward.  Trump, that is not a sign of a stellar diplomatic mission.

And he's continued to attack people in rather awful ways and say things I think are appalling.

I'm still horrified that he even talked about the Khan family after the convention, much less attacked them in any way.  There was absolutely no point in doing so and it was just plain mean.

I'm still horrified that he said a judge who ruled against him didn't like him because the judge was Mexican-American.  Like Paul Ryan said, that's the textbook definition of racism.

I'm still horrified that he threatened to sue all of the women who had accused him of sexual assault after he bragged about sexually assaulting people.

I'm still horrified that he would dismiss bragging about sexual assault as "locker room talk."

And my final reason?  He has lied about the refugee vetting process throughout the campaign.  Straight out lied.  And he is using those lies to make people in the US scared of refugees.  The president does have the power to set the number of refugees entering the country.  Last month he even threatened to deport Syrian refugees. 

I can *only* vote for the person who will keep him from being the President of the United States.  For me, anything else would be immoral.